I hate to beat
something in the ground, but I think this point is important. We need to have more consideration for other
people’s feelings and problems.
Most of us with MS
are in a similar situation – we are limited in our activities and have to enjoy
what we can within these limitations.
That is why there are so many Facebook and other websites that a lot of
us gather on to discuss our problems. I
have been so blessed to be able to make a lot of friends this way and feel like
they have helped me with so many of my problems. We try to encourage each other and pass along
any help we can give to each other.
Most of us also play
a lot of the games offered on these sites, especially Facebook. It is something we can do to entertain
ourselves and hopefully keep our minds as sharp as possible.
As with most people
with friends on Facebook, I have MS and non-MS friends. Most of my friends are aware of my problems
and are kind and considerate. Some of
those friends are not, although they may not mean to be unkind. Some of the people I have “friended” have
been referred by other people, are game friends, or just wandered onto my site
for some reason and asked to be friends.
I usually don’t turn anyone down unless I am really suspicious of them,
which has only occurred a couple of times.
Usually, like a lot
of you, I often wade through a lot of Facebook talk without really reading
it. I did stop and read something the
other week because the person writing the comments was doing so on a friend’s
post and I recognized the person. I was
a little hurt and disgusted at the comment.
My friend had, as do
all who play games, posts appear on her site from requests she had made while
playing games. If you don’t know about
this, when you need something in one of the games you are playing, the game
usually posts it to your site.
The other person had
written under the request: “Do not ask me for game requests. I do not play games and consider them a waste
of time. If you do insist on posting
games requests on my site, I will unfriend you.”
Maybe some of you
reading this agree with this comment. I
don’t. If you do not play games, I have
no problem with that. I do, however,
have a problem with rudeness.
Many people, as I
stated above, do not realize that some of these things are the only outlet that
a lot of us have. Our entertainment and
many of our friends are online and that is the major part of our lives. If someone does not understand this,
fine. If I don’t care for the things
some people are saying online, I skip over it.
Sorry………..just needed
to vent……..thanks for “listening”……I am OK now!!! J
4 comments:
I play the games on Facebook...I can't afford to pay for the brain game sites...man they are expensive!
So far I've been lucky that no one has complained about my silly game requests...like me, I'm sure they just ignore the games they don't play.
I don't understand rudeness...and I'm the sort that would've replied with the following:
I am so sorry my game requests have offended you. I hate that I must waste my time (and yours) playing these silly games. But alas, they necessary to help keep my brai strong while fighting this chronic illness. In the future I will do what I can to prevent the requests from appearing on your wall. If I remember that is...see these games are to help with memory and thought processes. At least I haven't lost the ability to feel compAssion and kindness.
Haha
I, too, see these requests every day. I don't play those games like Farmville because I never started and really don't understand what's going on with them.
I did sign on for Words with Friends, but I don't understand who I'm supposed to play with! I also joined the free online Scrabble (you have to submit to constant ads, but to join as a member costs $40!)
Many of my friends have game requests all the time, but since I don't play, I just scroll past. I would never post a nasty comment, though.
As you said, Janie, we all have to be mindful how we speak online, and we can't just indiscriminately hurt others' feelings.
Peace,
Muff
Thanks for the Comments. I just hate that people cannot be understanding of others, whether in person or online. As you said, Sherri, some of us do this to try and keep our brains active. Most of us cannot afford the expensive brain training sessions and this is the only help we get. Thanks ladies for joining in on this!!! I really appreciate your reading this blog and helping put into words the things I am trying to convey...
I get too tired sitting to play games, but if you like them, have fun and hide the people who upset you! Hugs and light your way! Olivia
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